So, where is your G-spot? I bet I could find it! No, that is not pompous confidence…just because I know where it is hiding.
Now this will be a quick sum up since we could write and write all day and just tickle the topic so to speak!
Now, the first trick is learning how you or your mate will respond to this stimulation. It could be a feeling so intense that she may not be able to transfer the feelings into enjoyment, but something more uncomfortable. On one hand, she may not feel it due to the desensitiveness of continued fucking without regard to the female enjoyment….yes, guys, there are some out there that are just for sliding thick cocks in and out of tight pussies. Or, she is one of the lucky few that can relax enough and enjoy sex so that she gets full benefit of the sneaky little nub. And, no, it is not that sneaky little nub that is responsible for the female ejaculation…or more commonly called squirting. The G-Spot and the female prostate is now thought to be two seperate
It is theorized that the g-spot should never be vibrated. Massaged yes, vibrated no. I have experimented with both methods, and I must admit, the vibration did nada for me. Also, another theory of a woman not enjoying the pleasured g-spot is the desensitation I just mentioned. So, why does everything have vibrating areas. The important thing not to forget is the clit. It really likes to be vibrated. And, many of the better vibrators will have the vibration concentrated in an area that affects the clit the most.
Not everyone knows how to have sex. This is guys and gals. Some guys are so happy to hide their meat stick, that they forget the little bits and pieces of the female anatomy. In and out…in and out…thrust grind bump…does not constitute a healthy g-spot arousal. Actually that is what makes it go ‘numb’ so to say, the repeated pumping abouse. And, it is these young women that are just starting having sex allowing the punishiment to the sweet spot. Now, unknowingly of course. The couple is just so happy to be doing the dirty.
What to do? How do you wake the little sleepy head up?
Well, time and attention. Making your lover aware that every now and then to take it slow. Turn the vibrator off. And, explore the female body. If you have never felt your g-spot out of “not wanting to touch myself”, then get over that! If you are in a room all alone, what matter does it make? Trust me, God is busy doing something else….like listening to everyone say OMG!…to be watching you.
Now…the lesson of finding the G-Spot:
The G-Spot actually should be called a crest. When trying to tell someone to find this ‘little spot’ it is very difficult because it is supposed to an area of tissue of sensitivity. Now the little trick is, you can’t find the ‘area’ unless you are aroused. Typically you are told that it is just the area at the top of the vagina past the pubic curve. Well, it probably will be. But it takes the engorgement caused by the female prostate to turn on the special spot. As the prostate that in mingled with the urethra excite and push on the tissue below it, around it…whatever, the texture of the vaginal wall changes in that area, and viola the g-spot or g-crest. (It will feel more textured than the rest of the vaginal wall and will become spongy when aroused.) It is easiest reached either on your back or knees. Just use the pointer and middle finger and caress over the curve of your pubic bone. Be gentle and enjoy. Many say that there will be a tiny nub or that they can actually feel a small cord-like area within the textured area.
So, now you can see how the g-spot, mixed with the female prostate, surrounding the urethra all contribute to female ejaculation. However, that will be another class.
(This was written for enjoyment purposes only with some hint of education. The views here are mine and should be treated as such.)