So, where is your G-spot?  I bet I could find it!  No, that is not pompous confidence…just because I know where it is hiding.

Now this will be a quick sum up since we could write and write all day and just tickle the topic so to speak!

Now, the first trick is learning how you or your mate will  respond to this stimulation.  It could be a feeling so intense that she may not be able to transfer the feelings into enjoyment, but something more uncomfortable.  On one hand, she may not feel it due to the desensitiveness of continued fucking without regard to the female enjoyment….yes, guys, there are some out there that are just for sliding thick cocks in and out of tight pussies.  Or, she is one of the lucky few that can relax enough and enjoy sex so that she gets full benefit of the sneaky little nub.  And, no, it is not that sneaky little nub that is responsible for the female ejaculation…or more commonly called squirting.  The G-Spot and the female prostate is now thought to be two seperate

It is theorized that the g-spot should never be vibrated.  Massaged yes, vibrated no.  I have experimented with both methods, and I must admit, the vibration did nada for me.  Also, another theory of a woman not enjoying the pleasured g-spot is the desensitation I just mentioned.  So, why does everything have vibrating areas.  The important thing not to forget is the clit.  It really likes to be vibrated.  And, many of the better vibrators will have the vibration concentrated in an area that affects the clit the most.

Not everyone knows how to have sex.  This is guys and gals.  Some guys are so happy to hide their meat stick, that they forget the little bits and pieces of the female anatomy.  In and out…in and out…thrust grind bump…does not constitute a healthy g-spot arousal.  Actually that is what makes it go ‘numb’ so to say, the repeated pumping abouse.  And, it is these young women that are just starting having sex allowing the punishiment to the sweet spot.  Now, unknowingly of course.  The couple is just so happy to be doing the dirty.

What to do?  How do you wake the little sleepy head up?

Well, time and attention.  Making your lover aware that every now and then to take it slow.  Turn the vibrator off.  And, explore the female body.  If you have never felt your g-spot out of “not wanting to touch myself”, then get over that!  If you are in a room all alone, what matter does it make?  Trust me, God is busy doing something else….like listening to everyone say OMG!…to be watching you.

Now…the lesson of finding the G-Spot:

The G-Spot actually should be called a crest.  When trying to tell someone to find this ‘little spot’ it is very difficult because it is supposed to an area of tissue of sensitivity.  Now the little trick is, you can’t find the ‘area’ unless you are aroused.  Typically you are told that it is just the area at the top of the vagina past the pubic curve.  Well, it probably will be.  But it takes the engorgement caused by the female prostate to turn on the special spot.  As the prostate that in mingled with the urethra excite and push on the tissue below it, around it…whatever, the texture of the vaginal wall changes in that area, and viola the g-spot or g-crest.  (It will feel more textured than the rest of the vaginal wall and will become spongy when aroused.)  It is easiest reached either on your back or knees.  Just use the pointer and middle finger and caress over the curve of your pubic bone.  Be gentle and enjoy.  Many say that there will be a tiny nub or that they can actually feel a small cord-like area within the textured area.

So, now you can see how the g-spot, mixed with the female prostate, surrounding the urethra all contribute to female ejaculation.  However, that will be another class.

(This was written for enjoyment purposes only with some hint of education.  The views here are mine and should be treated as such.)

The feel of a close shave

The smoothness left by the razor’s edge

The silky skin

The sexy glow

The secret that I only know…

Sometimes I am asked to write for a contest or as a special “blogger”.  This is one the pieces I did for a dear friend on MySpace.  I was to write a defining moment.  Enjoy.

The Ultimatum
by: The Official Naked Nurse

The soft lap of the water eased itself up and over the concrete steps.  I closed my eyes in the warming embrace of the early summer sun.  My long blond hair fell helplessly over my shoulders barely grazing the ground.  My eyes partly open.

I hear the graze and squeak of the metal gate as it swings open and shut.

He walks in.

I propped to my elbows as he slides into the lounge chair.  I mumble the answer to his question but quickly blushes with embarrassment as he sets his phone down.

Little did I know that I played right in the plan of Destiny.  The Fates.

My legs ached as I recovered from my last sexual encounter.  And, I licked my lips as I drank him in feeling the lightening strike my soul as in answer that my soul mate peered back at me.

Those lips parted.  Muscles rippling. Water dripping down his chest as he climbs out of the pool.

My voice cracked as we spoke.  My heart felt like butterflies were teaching it to fly.  My insides tickled.

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Our courtship began.

Our dating was quick and powerful.

My “wild oates” haunted our “tomorrow”.

The ultimatum given:

Will you be mine and mine alone?  Or, do have a hidden promiscuous need?  Are you done shuffling the cards of lovers?

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The choice in other time in my life would have been to take the deck of cards and run.  My defenses when faced with an ultimatum would have made me say no, before him.  But he made me sizzle.  Captivated my core, my soul.

I said yes.

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Love can find you when you aren’t looking.  Your soul searches for its mate.  All you have to do is be willing to say yes.

I was saved from a path of self destruction.

Between society and social networking sites, I have heard an abundance of complaints rooted from one simple question:  What are your New Year resolutions?  I use to be one of those that said, “Why should I make a resolution when I am just going to break it?  Why bring more self-criticism and disappointment onto myself.”

I changed my mind today.

This is the year I put a sincere effort into  the things I want and things I want to see happen.  I’ve taken a too lackadaisical approach and doubted myself for far too many years.  I enjoy writing.  I enjoy writing many different types of genres, but I enjoy erotica the most.  I don’t mind hiding behind pictures.  It lets my words be heard without prejudice to appearances.

I took a big leap today.  I put my blog on Kindle today.  I can’t express the thrill I felt when I saw it download onto my home screen.  I can’t wait to see what 2010 brings for me.  The stories yet to be finished.  The stories yet to be started.  The poetry waiting to be written.

I am honored to have my faithful friends of year’s past with me today and the new friends waiting to be made tomorrow.  The thrilling aspect of Sexy Thoughts and Delicious Nibbles….excite me.

Oh, yeah…

HAPPY NEW YEAR!